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I often thaught that would have been helpful for me.
I wasn't diagnosed that time, too, had a very horrible birth although I had a midwife from third month of pregnancy, planned homebirth (to have fullcontrol...).
So then I had to go to hospital because my trombocite went down dramatically, birth was started and no pain meds.
I was very young, got unplanned alone pregnant poor with no family or other support, lived in a flat with coal-oven-heating.
Nobody told me it can get extremly traumatic to give birth after beeing vio***ed. I was so overwhelmed, cried every evening the first YEARS. Felt alone with that and beeing a bad mother.
Good You talk about that there is help!
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I love this. I have ADD and i was chronically ill having my first baby. They told me i couldnt get pregnant but I did and I was having guilt issues. I felt guilty keeping my baby because i wanted the best thing for him not a sick mom and i felt guilty if i would halt the pregnancy. Obviously i kept my child. He is my responsebility. I was scared. How was I going to survive this. I didnt want to fall short on his needs and having him hating me afterwards. I only had a bit of help from my parents, but we survived. It was hard. And i felt depressed for over a year. And had many meltdowns. Fortunately we are okay now.
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Thank you for sharing that. There have been times in recent years where I have thought about admitting myself, and someone else in my family is in a place now where inpatient could be recommended in a potentially mandatory way. The idea is very scary, and for some legitimate reasons: psychiatric facilities in the US have historically been problematic, and that still occurs. A facility intended for new mothers in crisis should obviously be focused on aid and not judgment â but of course, all mental health services should be. I hope some day they all are.
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Oh my gosh! I couldâve used some help like that. My delivery was so traumatic and I was barely functioning. It was one of the most difficult times of my life and my ex-husband was nowhere to be found in my time of need. Itâs amazing I didnât un alive myself back then. I wanted three children, but only ended up with one due to the severe trauma I experienced. I had serious postpartum for a year. I remember this day and days after like it was yesterday.
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Oh my goodness, what a wonderful help. I imagine scary at the time, but what a help.
I had such a hard time that I basically couch surfed for his first 4 months to anyone who was willing to help, then moved back to my home state to live with my family. At the time, I only had the diagnosis of adhd and Bipolar. So I just thought I'd be fine once the meds were on board, I was not. I now know that what we all called a Bipolar mood swings were actually Autistic meltdowns.
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@randomvielleuse527
2 months ago
I am so glad you and your baby got such expert help and support! Thank you for sharing this, too. A LOT of new parents have difficulty dealing with all the stress and challenges around pregnancy, birth and caring for their newborn! Everyone deserves knowledgeable and guilt-free support. It should be seen as part of the whole process and not âjustâ for emergencies.
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