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As a former free hug sign person at cons here is a tip I learned. Judge how to give the hug by the energy their hug is to you. Don’t be afraid to squeeze if they squeeze, don’t be afraid to pat if they pat. Some will have the energy that they just needed that hug and I give the little back rub for them because I can tell they need it. As for hand location middle of the back is the go to area but upper back works too.
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I LOVE giving and receiving hugs! You don't have to do anything with your hands. Put them on the other person's back and leave 'em there. Maybe rock side to side a little, if you like. To disengage, give them a gentle squeeze and pull back.
But then again, I only let people I like hug me, and have mastered the kind of hypervigilant self-containment that strangers don't ambush me.
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Don't stress about it. The fact that you're giving comfort to someone(even if it's awkward) means a lot to the receiver.
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Years ago when I was a young nurse in the pediatrics ER I had a scared little girl dive into me for a hug; she instantly sighed in relief and said “ahhhhh, you’re so squishy just like a mom” 😂
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Try this for hugs with anyone who isn't a close friend or partner or family.
- hands go either middle of back or between the shoulders and under any hair.
- give a firm squeeze, think gentle pressure. Like a weighted blanket.
- allow them to pull away first unless you're uncomfortable
-side hugs are also a lot less pressure, go for a side hug if youre uncomfortable or even if you just dont know them that well.
And lastly minimal contact between the trunks of your bodies generally just upper torso
Thank you for coming to my ted talk
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Side hugs for the win. Slightly less awkward in my experience 🤷🏾
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Pretend like you're a bear and just squeeze 😂
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OMGOSH!!! I can relate to this!! This is often a sign of childhood trauma and/or neglect. When you do not have your emotional needs met as a child, it is often difficult to have physical emotional contact with others.......especially people who are not within your inner circle!!
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I legit learned to hug adults at Pride in Atlanta about 7-8 years ago. I didn’t hug adults other than family for the most part, but wanted to do the “free mom hugs” at Pride so badly as I and my oldest daughter are bi and my middle is gay… this was just super important for us to do.
Everyone that I hugged that day hugged back with such love and fervor that it made such an impact. So many people latched on for dear life saying it was the first hug from a mom they’d had in years, due to coming out. It was a very emotional day.
It changed me. Everyone I hugged after got those good squeezes, a little back rub and pat, and I let them let go first. I didn’t realize It impacted my hugs so much and I never thought much about it until last month.My precious sis in law called me— she had just found out her mom had cancer. She asked if she could come over for a hug and of course I obliged. We had a very long hug while she cried, she unloaded for a few mins, then got another good hug before leaving and then said “thank you. I just needed a really good hug and you give the best hugs out of everyone”.
It really really touched me to think back and realize that it was Pride that gave me that. Hugging all those adult kids missing their own moms. Being a mom is a super power and hugging like a mom is too 🤍
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I like to hug people with the same pressure they hug me, and I employ the Disney hug technique of not letting go until they do. You'd be surprised how many people really need a hug and melt into your arms after the first few seconds. Even though I'm not a hugger people always say I'm the best hugger so I think this tactic has worked so far
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I wish they had a class that teaches us how to hug eachother properly with consent and safety in mind. It would have helped so much in middle school to learn boundaries and learn what is okay and what isn't okay.
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That sounds like such classic nero diverse problem. "Rules unclear!"
I heard one person explain it saying physical contact is fine, but only if the rules are clear. Anything from football to ballroom dancing has preset rules. Hugs are hard.
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That is a mood. I am very clingy and always wanting hugs, but if someone asks ME for a hug, I panic and have no idea what to do.
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I just give a real hug and squish em! 😂 awkward light hugs with pats dont say 'you are loved' like a big ole squishy firm hug! I think it shows im not afraid to love with open arms!
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The pat pat is the equivalent of talking about the weather. It's a go to. We got these awkward cuddles ✊🏼
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I go for the pat pats on their shoulders too!!! Thank you for always making me feel less alone in my weirdness 🥰
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If you feel weird about hands on the back, making fists is actually pretty convenient. You still get the arm hug, but your fingers are less likely to get caught in hair and you'll feel less like you're just randomly touching their shoulder blades lol.
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That “…do I?” Reaction always makes me smile lol the unsureness of it is adorable
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Coming from someone with sensory issues but also a major lover of physical touch, SQUEEZING & ANY KIND OF RUBBING + PATTING!! 💕🎀
The squeezing lets anyone know that the other party consents, and that the hug is enjoyed consensually.
The patting or circular movements are additional support that (imo) is really comfortin
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@HolliNiesen
1 month ago
What's worked for me is the squeeze hug, but you have to match the strength of the other person's squeeze. If you give little squeeze, you get little squeeze. Gives a sense of balance
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