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Executive Assistants DO SO MUCH TO KEEP A Company RUNNING. I was one for 7 years and made 6 figures. I did not get my boss coffee, ever.
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😎 Other acceptable responses to overt rude-ness:
Repeat:
“I didn’t get that, what did you say?”
A little humor:
“Oh, I’m supposed to be getting him coffee? Oops!”
Mirror:
“Just get my boss coffee?”
Combat:
“Wow, I’m surprised you said that out loud!”
HOWEVER, I find that silence is extremely effective. Most of the time, rude people at work are looking to put you down to make them feel better about themselves.
So by making them feel awkward, they will be trained to no longer behave that way. Kinda like Pavlov’s dog, ya know? Behavioral conditioning 🧠 🐕
They will take the backtracking as a choice they made to save face, not something you made them do.
If you respond verbally, you give them something to latch on to and tell everyone else “that new girl/guy is such a [negative word]!]
But if you simply can endure 3-4 seconds of awkward silence, you challenge them on a deeper level.
Remember: don’t get angry, get curious 😏
You got this 👏🏼
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another one is "sorry what was that? couldn't hear you" it forces them to think about what they're saying for a minute
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Silence is ALWAYS the perfect response to an insult, regardless of a situation. Bonus points for giving them a look like "what is wrong with you, bullying in 2024". The insulter gets real uncomfortable real quick.
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I took the bait before. Thanks for letting me know that they have fragile egos. That helps me feel better when I face them again.
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As Eloise Bridgerton says “silence is radically more effective”
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❤❤❤❤ Their attitude always shines back on them.
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I learned this trick years ago in a career seminar, but it also suggested asking them to repeat themselves "what was that?" 9/10 they'll change their comment or say "never mind".
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When someone is rude just ask "Why?". So they will have to explain themselves.
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Erin I just got 2 job offers and I can’t thank you enough!!! You’ve helped me get pointers for interviews and I just want to say you’re awesome!! 😭💕🦋
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"I'll see ya around" ICY!!!!!! Ooh we love this calm energy ❄️
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I needed to hear this today. Thank you Erin your literally a Godsend...
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as an EA (a damn good one) I approve. Also people need to learn early that if you want to get on an Exec's calendar, you be really good to the EA as they are the gatekeeper and are the closest to cracking the code to bending space and time
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Yeah I realised that when you embrace awkwardness it's actually a really powerful tool 😂
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This exactly. It's better to let them hear themselves. You couldn't care less of how they want to see you, you can only focus on what you actually do.
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Well if you remain silent when someone is being rude to you to a bigger group, such as at school or discussion setting, the person does not get the message across... it takes confrontation to stop such people, sadly😂😂
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I also like saying "That's such a weird thing to say in public" in a sort of confused tone of voice and then walking away.
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In the words of TellTale games: Silence is an option.
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I’m an Executive Assistant and I’ve never gotten my boss her coffee - she actually kindly offered to make me one yesterday.
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@Empathy-and-resilience
3 weeks ago
This is so true. Pausing like you don’t understand really works lol
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