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@lavaewebb8281

2 months ago

First comment!!! Pin pls I love ur videos sooo much

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@cassandragarcia125

2 months ago

The fact that you just taught me that schedules and routines are different. I'm a creature of habit and love my routine, but I have always hated schedules and never knew why I liked my routine but not schedules. This explains it.

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@DementedDarkness546

2 months ago

I go with "repercussions". Actions have repercussions, so you need to think about your actions to avoid repercussions you don't want.

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@clairebaskett7348

2 months ago

The word discipline comes from the same word root word as disciple - meaning to learn. If the child is not learning anything, they're being punished. If they learn something, they are being disciplined. For some reason, this knowledge resulted in a huge shift in my teaching/classroomanagement. I'm so glad you brought it up

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@MosDaft

2 months ago

With my kids, I've always called it "Natural Consequences." It has to be something that turns their behavior into an understandable action and how it affects everyone, including themselves. Never something done out of our own anger, frustration, loss of self control, or in the heat of the moment.

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@Felisquoreda

2 months ago

I love surprises versus secrets. Never had to deal with SA, but seen many children's books about it. They often distinguish between if a secret makes you feel good or bad and the bad ones you should definitively tell some grown ups you trust. Because the perpetrators in the books always call it "our little secret" or whatever. Calling the good ones surprises and your definition makes sooooo much sense though. It catches all of the bad secrets and not just one single specific thing.

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@Rose-jz6sx

2 months ago

For me as well, as an adult, I've found changing "should" to "could' very helpful for mitigating being mean to myself for not doing things. I have a chronic illness so I often feel that I should be doing xyz instead of lazing around, when really I could be doing xyz but am choosing not to over exert myself and bring on a crash. I'm not lazy, I need rest to heal and recover.

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@minimomma1

2 months ago

The secrets versus surprises is so important for child safety.

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@ashleymiles3373

2 months ago

I love the discipline vs punishment concept

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@staceycoates1418

2 months ago

Instead of schedules I have grown up with gameplan. My dad always used that when talking about evening or weekend plans.

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@TJSchongar

2 months ago

So, I'm in early pregnancy, and am estranged from some of my family, willfully gone low contact with the rest, considering no contact with a handful. Lots of fun reasons that has kept my therapist in business! I cant lie, your content is helping me feel like I have a shot at doing better than them. Definitely plan on buying your book, too :)

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@nikkiewhite476

2 months ago

I love your end statement. "Will this work for every family? No but it works for ours."

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@87RH

2 months ago

I like how you explained them and yes they sound better and nicer.

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@sleepygemmar

2 months ago

Surprises should also be something that everyone will be excited by or enjoy when they're revealed. If it's not something good for them to find out then it might be a secret instead and they should tell a trusted grown up.

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@thejellies5192

2 months ago

Making good choices, consequences, surprises and routines are all words I’ve used throughout both my children’s lives and I continue to use as a teaching assistant at work. They not only help children to make sense of situations but to find they also keep me calmer and regulated.

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@kaybee3798

2 months ago

I would love to hear more, especially the discipline vs punishment 💝💝

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@iamsongforsomeone994

2 months ago

I love changing secrets to surprises. That's such a nicer way of putting things that can't be shared yet but will be shared eventually.

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@rachelwhite2210

2 months ago

We do the surprises versus secrets, too. It helps to keep kids safe, too.

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@deannaepler

2 months ago

That's so true:words we use matter. The words we choose affect how we feel about things. Thank you for putting into words what I needed to be able to say to people.

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@paigeg5852

4 days ago

My therapist really helped me reframe how I look at my depression and lack of motivation. He said to focus on discipline instead of motivation and that has really helped me.

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