@revelationsofearthclay7834

2 years ago

It’s sad because he had a wife before you came along and instead of being a righteous person towards her he accepted you also, instead of showing you respect right because that’s what he is about respecting his queen he married you too….so men eventually become envious and say i want 2 wives or 3 wives too but DONT consider in their heart what they’re truly saying concerning the 1st wife. In this dark and wicked world people want what they can’t have and some situations are different to where they will say “I want to make my wife happy or spice up or relationship let’s bring a 2nd woman in I will love her too” but if your situation wasn’t favorable and he brought in a younger, prettier, toned up, funnier, feistier woman, SUBMISSIVE woman would it still be fair?? What some call a 2 wife driven home others see “accepted adultery against the 1st wife”, how many women can he marry along with you and it be ok? Why is it ok for him to love you partially because he can never love you fully because he has to divide his time and effort into who needs what more, a better question is if you married him at a younger age and 19 years pass and he brings a 2nd woman In to marry would you accept it still competing with another woman who WANTED HIM BADLY?! people kill each other over side chicks and secret love affairs yet you may say ours is different and I would ask how so it’s the same thing just packaged differently, these are not Old Testament times where men had many wives to replenish the earth. you can choose a man now who Loves you from his heart and not LUSTS OVER WITH HIS HEART and will want to Share his life with you not juggle you along with his life choices. I don’t want you to respond to me I’m not important but if you could….REFLECT ON MY WORDS, there are many who will congratulate you while few will speak truth in love towards you because there are many who share your situation, if you don’t care that’s fine someone may come along who does, but I find it strange that he wouldn’t marry a Caucasian woman nor have her as his 2nd wife because sisters wouldn’t tolerate that but he could have 2 sisters and that’s ok??? It really misrepresents us to others and visually looks bad. In the end he is living HIS FANTASY not you, love causes us to do strange things and it destroys something most precious that we can’t receive back and that’s TIME…God bless

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