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A mother who thinks she competes with her son's lover for her son's love is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. It will cause unhappiness at some points.
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This is EXACTLY why I don't talk to my mom. She did this with all three of my brothers and treated me terribly if I (the girl child) was nice or friendly to any of my own brothers and my dad. My own dad! Like how the fuck is your daughter competition for your husband?! No contact is the only solution.
Edit: Wow! I didn't expect this comment to blow up like this. I am so sorry that this has been such a common experience. Nobody deserves this and I am hopeful everyone here can find a place of peace in their life where things are okay, even better than trials you have been through. Hugs
To answer some of the question brought up below, yes, my therapist does believe my mother has some issues with mental illness. She refuses to go to therapy, however. I am not going to share the specific dianogsis my therapist thinks it is as individuals with it already recieve so much hate online. Part of her issues was from family (they are also very emotionally unstable) and part of it was from her abusive first marriage. I don't know all the details of the marriage, I just know it ended about 40 years ago with my pregnant mother taking my eldest brother (her only child at the time) and driving non-stop in the dead of night home to Denver from New York City. She was always very nervous about anyone driving up the road. She met my dad a few years later.
With that mind, it doesn't change the fact she would have a mental breakdown, crying that nobody in this family loves her, because one of my brothers said I was fun to play video games with or because my dad compliment me in some way (usually about my schoolwork/grades). The emtire family has tried for ages to convince her to go to therapy, but she has refused often breaking down into tears if we bring it up. When my older brothers started dating, she would often start fights with their girlfriends and later on their wives. Because of that, they are low to no contact. I went no contact once I was able to independently pay my bills, and my younger brother has gone no contact in the past year. So, it just her and my dad now. I applaud him for standing by her even when I couldn't.
I still love her, but the no contact is for my sanity.
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Thank you. It’s so freaking weird and creepy. Moms are acting like their sons are replacement husbands and dads are treating their daughters like property. And they think it’s cute. It’s GROSS.
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It’s gross and I’m glad more people are speaking out about it. So many moms causing incest issues in their sons because they don’t see the difference between the diff types of relationships
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Emotional incest will ALWAYS lead to one of two things. Either a man who is incapable of functioning on his own, or a man who resents his mother and never speaks to her again once he leaves the house. These women who are obsessed with their sons because they "need aan who loves them unconditionally" don't need children, they need help. Your child is not "your man". They are your CHILD, and thinking of any of their potential partners as "competition" is disgusting because of what it implies.
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Sure, a mom is probably going to be the first one to kiss her child. But if it’s something that can count as a “first kiss”, something is very, very wrong.
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These are the moments when my social worker heart feels the inner need to check on the family to make sure if the child is okay... 🤔
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Thank you for creating this with such poise. Yes it makes other moms ick too. Sons are not to be “romanticized” but raised and nurtured to become strong, capable, compassionate people 😊
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Yeah this kinda reminds me of my dad's mom. She always had this mentality that the wives of all her sons (3) were not good enough in every way, looks, weight, house duties etc. Her "boys" could do no wrong! And she'd get jealous or salty if they spent too much time with their WIVES. She'd do everything for them too and spoil them growing up. Now all 3 (including my own dad) have all been left by their wives of 10/20+ years because of his mom and their unwillingness to grow up/appreciate their spouses correctly. Gotta love the mommas boys!
Edit; for an example in this, my uncle was unemployed for a few months and my auntie was working hard to keep her children and them fed and sheltered while he looked for a new job. Hed spend his time drinking too much and treating it like a holiday. My grandmother took me and my brother to go see our cousins and my aunt had just got home from work. My grandmother started complaining to my aunt how messy the house was and how she could have done the dishes before she left for work and is terrible for nit teaching her kids how to clean up after themselves. All while my uncle HAD BEEN LOUNGING AROUND THE HOUSE ALL DAY DOING NOTHING!!!
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Thanks for saying this these "boy moms" freak me the f*** out sometimes.
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this is where we get crazy Mother in Law stories where they wear wedding dresses to their son's wedding etc.
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This whole "boy mom" thing is giving Oedipus, and I'm really worried about it.
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Omg I’m so glad someone is talking about this! As a mom of 2 boys I will not be the typical monster in law to my new daughter. She will be loved and welcome and a part of the family. Idk why people treat the daughter in law like trash
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I learned this concept during a sermon, when I was religious. The greeks had many words for love in different kinds of ways: philia (friendship), agape (universal love), ludus (playful love), storge (family love). They all come out of different emotional repositories, so there is no competition. I feel safe knowing this won’t be an issue for me in future commitments since I have this understanding 😅
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even aside from the INSANE implications she's making, as a eldest child, it's so tough to see parents who rely so heavily on their eldest that they can't stand to see them in a committed relationship.
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I love my boys but that is disgusting. It’s putting a romantic twist on the parent/child relationship and I hate it. I just as strongly dislike girl dads being obsessed with their daughters dating/virginity/sex lives.
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I'm a mom of four boys, and my MIL is a "boy mom". I have a thousand stories of inappropriate and unsettling behavior. 🙄
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I felt that silence before starting To verbalize the thoughts. There was so much To unpack 😅
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Thank you!!! As a mom of 3 boys (and a step son), I think these moments are twisted. I love my boys than life itself, but to be jealous of their current or future girlfriends and wives, it’s mentally unhealthy and disgusting.
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@ellib4977
1 month ago
so relieved we all were equally disgusted and disappointed by that women
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